Growing up can feel incredibly isolating when you do not see yourself reflected in the world around you. In this powerful and deeply personal memoir, journalist and activist George M. Johnson shares their journey of navigating childhood, adolescence, and college as a Black queer boy in New Jersey and Virginia. Through a series of honest and emotional essays, you will experience their highest triumphs and toughest trials. From facing bullies on the playground to sharing quiet, loving moments at the flea market with their grandmother, Johnson holds nothing back. This book tackles heavy but essential topics like gender identity, toxic masculinity, family bonds, and the vital importance of Black joy. Whether you are looking for a reassuring reflection of your own life or seeking to become a stronger ally, this frank and beautifully written story offers a profound look at brotherhood, consent, and finding the courage to be your authentic self.